拿捏

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1. be affectedly bashful

♦ 有话快说, ~个什么劲儿! Out with it. Why be so shy and hesitant?

2. make things difficult for; put pressure on; threaten

♦ 我就做错过那么一次, 你就老用这个来~我。 That's the only mistake I made and you are always using it against me.