难为

1. embarrass; press

♦ 她不会唱歌, 就别~她了。 She can't sing. So don't press her to.

2. be a tough job to

♦ 一个人拉扯大五六个孩子, 真~了她。 It was quite a job for her to bring up half a dozen children all by herself.

3. 套 (used to thank sb. for doing a favour)

♦ 机票也替我们买好了, 真~你了。 It was really very kind of you to get the plane tickets for us.